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Within a few minutes to talking to Bethany Meyers, it's obvious why she's the fitness instructor New York City can't get enough of. Dating bethany blog voice is soft yet encouraging, she laughs easily, and Dating bethany blog an open book: She won't leave any questions unanswered, no matter how ridiculous or personal. If you're going to work your core in ways you never thought possible, who better to do it with?

Her never-not-sold-out workout classes have led to a booming career in the fitness industry—after leaving her job at the popular workout studio SLT in June, she launched her own workout called be. But Meyers' relationship with Younger star Nico Tortorella has also garnered media attention.

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The duo have been together for 11 years, and they both identify as sexually fluid. And if you ask Bethany to put a label on her sexuality, she'll tell you labels are complicated. I've been with Nico for so long that I can't see myself being with any other man. But I also feel more comfortable with women than men.

Beyond their sexualities, Meyers and Tortorella have another nontraditional element to their relationship: They're in an open relationship, meaning they're free to date and sleep with other people. An open relationship is what works for Meyers and Tortorella, but that doesn't mean either of them is immune to jealousy. Dating bethany blog over the years, Meyers has come up with reliable coping mechanisms for dealing with it. And at the end of the day, the best you can do is respect those feelings.

So if my partner says 'I feel jealous,' I make sure to allow them to feel that way and move through it. Meyers also advises coming up with a specific set of accountability rules to make coping with these feelings easier. For example, we would set up times to talk, so I would say, 'OK, I'll talk to you at nine tonight' Dating bethany blog of just 'I'll talk to you later.

She also adds that for her, transparency is key. Sleeping with someone shouldn't be an in-the-moment thing.

Then you go back in and say, 'how did that feel for you? You have to establish boundaries ahead of time. Meyers grew up in a small town outside Missouri, and most people didn't quite understand her relationship choices.

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And some of her friends don't get it either. My siblings have more traditional lives, and I've told them I don't expect them to understand it.

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But you just can't argue with happiness. I'm the best I've ever been to people in my life in my relationship because I'm honest with myself.

While Meyers sees Tortorella Dating bethany blog a "husband" of sorts, she's not sure marriage is for her—but she'd be open to the seven-year contract marriage model.

In my ideal world, we would reframe marriage to make it more manageable. I read about entering into marriage as a seven-year contract and Dating bethany blog the option to renew, and I love this idea. I think if you enter into a marriage for legal reasons and at the end of seven years you talk about what you want to do next, it gives you some checkpoints in the relationship and doesn't undermine the fact that we as humans change, shift, and evolve.

As for how she feels about Tortorella? She doesn't see that changing anytime soon. I always believed he was going to be successful, and since his role on Younger our relationship hasn't changed at all.

I just love him. Interested in how open relationships work? Here's the dark side of open relationships no one tells you about. In order to be your best self in your relationships—whether it's with a friend, family member, or partner—you need to FEEL your best, inside and out. Ready to learn more about how to become your most vibrant self?

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